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6.2: Conflict and Interpersonal Communication

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    14273
  • Learning Objectives

    1. Define interpersonal conflict.
    2. Compare and contrast the five styles of interpersonal conflict management.
    3. Explain how perception and culture influence interpersonal conflict.
    4. List strategies for effectively managing conflict.

    Who do you have the most conflict with right now? Your answer to this question probably depends on the various contexts in your life. If you still live at home with a parent or parents, you may have daily conflicts with your family as you try to balance your autonomy, or desire for independence, with the practicalities of living under your family’s roof. If you’ve recently moved away to go to college, you may be negotiating roommate conflicts as you adjust to living with someone you may not know at all. You probably also have experiences managing conflict in romantic relationships and in the workplace. So think back and ask yourself, “How well do I handle conflict?” As with all areas of communication, we can improve if we have the background knowledge to identify relevant communication phenomena and the motivation to reflect on and enhance our communication skills.

    Interpersonal conflict occurs in interactions where there are real or perceived incompatible goals, scarce resources, or opposing viewpoints. Interpersonal conflict may be expressed verbally or nonverbally along a continuum ranging from a nearly imperceptible cold shoulder to a very obvious blowout. Interpersonal conflict is, however, distinct from interpersonal violence, which goes beyond communication to include abuse. Domestic violence is a serious issue and is discussed in the section “The Dark Side of Relationships.”

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    Interpersonal conflict is distinct from interpersonal violence, which goes beyond communication to include abuse.

    Bobafred – Fist Fight – CC BY-NC-ND 2.0.