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    Abstract Refers to words that relate to ideas or concepts that exist only in your mind and do not represent a tangible object.        
    Abstraction Ladder A diagram that explains the process of abstraction.        
    Accent Nonverbal communication that emphasizes a portion of a message or word rather than the message as a whole.        
    Accidental Communication When an individual sends messages to another person without realizing those messages are being sent.        
    Acting with Awareness Purposefully focusing one’s attention on the activity or interaction in which one is engaged.        
    Action Model Communication model that views communication as a onedirectional transmission of information from a source or sender to some destination or receiver.        
    Affect Displays Kinesics that show feelings and emotions.        
    Affectionless Psychopathy The inability to show affection or care about others.        
    Affective Orientation An individual’s recognition of their own emotions and the emotions of others and reliance on these emotions during decision making processes.        
    Affective Orientation A connection or association with others.        
    Agape Selfless love in which the needs of others are the priority.        
    Alexithymia A general deficit in emotional vocabulary—the ability to identify emotional feelings, differentiate emotional states from physical sensations, communicate feelings to others, and process emotion in a meaningful way.        
    Ambiguous Language Language that has multiple meanings.        
    Analyzing This is helpful in gaining different alternatives and perspectives by offering an interpretation of the speaker’s message.        
    Androgynous A person having both feminine and masculine characteristics.        
    Anxious Shyness The fear associated with dealing with others face-to-face.        
    Appreciative Listening The type of listening you engage in for pleasure or enjoyment.        
    Appropriate Communication Communication tactics that most people would consider acceptable communicative behaviors.        
    Argument A verbal exchange between two or more people who have differing opinions on a given subject or subjects.        
    Argumentativeness Communication trait that predisposes the individual in communication situations to advocate positions on controversial issues, and to attack verbally the positions which other people take on these issues.        
    Assertiveness The degree to which an individual can initiate, maintain, and terminate conversations, according to their interpersonal goals during interpersonal interactions.        
    Attending The act of focusing on specific objects or stimuli in the world around you        
    Attention Factor of mindful practice that involves being aware of what’s happening internally and externally moment-to-moment.        
    Attitude Factor of mindful practice that involves being curious, open, and nonjudgmental.        
    Attraction Interest in another person and a desire to get to know them better.        
    Attribution Error The tendency to explain another individual’s behavior in relation to the individual’s internal tendencies rather than an external factor        
    Authoritarianism A form of social organization where individuals favor absolute obedience to an authority (or authorities) as opposed to individual freedom.        
    Autonomy An individual’s independence in their behaviors and thoughts within a marriage relationship.        
    Avoidance Conflict management style where an individual attempt to either prevent a conflict from occurring or leaves a conflict when initiated.        
    Avoiding The stage of coming apart where you are creating distance from your partner.        
    Behavioral CQ The degree to which an individual behaves in a manner that is consistent with what they know about other cultures.        
    Belief Assumptions and convictions held by an individual, group, or culture about the truth or existence of something.        
    Bias An attitude that is not objective or balanced, prejudiced, or the use of words that intentionally or unintentionally offend people or express an unfair attitude concerning a person’s race, ethnicity, sexual orientation, age, disability, or illness.        
    Biased Language Language that shows preference in favor of or against a certain pointof-view, shows prejudice, or is demeaning to others.        
    Bonding The stage of coming together where you make a public announcement that your relationship exists.        
    Bullying Form of aggressive behavior in which a person of greater power attempts to inflict harm or discomfort on individuals and the behavior is repeated over time.        
    Buzz Word Informal word or jargon used among a particular group of people.        
    Career Strategizing The process of creating a plan of action for one’s career path and trajectory.        
    Channel The pathways in which messages are conveyed.        
    Circumscribing The stage of coming apart where communication decreases. There are more arguments, working late, and there is less intimacy.        
    Cliché Expression that has been so overused that it has lost its original meaning.        
    Co-Culture Regional, economic, social, religious, ethnic, or other cultural groups that exerts influence in society.        
    Coercive Power The ability to punish an individual who does not comply with one’s influencing attempts.        
    Cognitive Complexity The psychological characteristic that indicates the difficulty or simplicity associated with mental demand.        
    Cognitive CQ The degree to which an individual has cultural knowledge.        
    Cognitive Dispositions General patterns of mental processes that impact how people respond and react to the world around them.        
    Collective Self-Esteem The aspect of an individual’s self-worth or self-image that stems from their interaction with others and evaluation of their various social groups.        
    Collectivism Characteristics of a culture that values cooperation and harmony and considers the needs of the group to be more important than the needs of the individual.        
    Collegial peers Type of coworker with whom we have moderate levels of trust, selfdisclosure, and openness.        
    Colloquialism Informal expression used in casual conversation that is often specific to certain dialects or geographic regions of a country.        
    Communication The process by which we share ideas or information with other people.        
    Communication Apprehension The fear or anxiety associated with either real or anticipated communication with another person or persons.        
    Communication Competence Communication that is both socially appropriate and personally effective.        
    Communication Dispositions General patterns of communicative behavior        
    Communication Motives Reasons why we communicate with others.        
    Communication Needs Shows us how communication fulfills our needs.        
    Comparison Level Minimum standard of what is acceptable.        
    Comparison Level of Alternatives Comparison of what is happening in the relationship and what could be gained in another relationship.        
    Compatible Able to exist together harmoniously        
    Complement Nonverbal communication that reinforces verbal communication.        
    Complementary When one person can fulfill the other person’s needs.        
    Compliance When an individual accepts an influencer’s influence and alters their thoughts, feelings, and/or behaviors.        
    Comprehension Listening Listening for facts, information, or ideas that may be of use to you.        
    Concept-Orientation Family communication pattern where freedom of expression is encouraged, and communication is frequent and family life is pleasurable.        
    Conflict An interactive process occurring when conscious beings (individuals or groups) have opposing or incompatible actions, beliefs, goals, ideas, motives, needs, objectives, obligations, resources, and/or values.        
    Confrontational Behaviors Specific behaviors associated with confrontation or direct behaviors, involves name-calling, cruel teasing, ridicule, and verbal rejection directed at the target.        
    Connotation What a word suggests or implies; connotations give words their emotional impact.        
    Connotative Definitions The emotions or associations a person makes when exposed to a symbol.        
    Contact Frequency This is how often you communicate with another person.        
    Content Level Information that is communicated through the denotative and literal meanings of words.        
    Contradict Nonverbal communication conveying the opposite meaning of verbal communication.        
    Converge Adapting your communication style to the speaker to be similar.        
    Conversations Interpersonal interactions through which you share facts and information as well as your ideas, thoughts, and feelings with other people.        
    Cost Escalation A form of relational disengagement involving tactics designed to make the cost of maintaining the relationship higher than getting out of the relationship.        
    Cultural Intelligence The degree to which an individual can communicate competently in varying cultural situations.        
    Culture A group of people who, through a process of learning, can share perceptions of the world, which influence their beliefs, values, norms, and rules, which eventually affect behavior.        
    Culture as Normative The basic idea that one’s culture provides the rules, regulations, and norms that govern a culture and how people act with other members of that society.        
    Denotation The dictionary definition or descriptive meaning of a word.        
    Denotative Definitions Definitions for words commonly found in dictionaries.        
    Depersonalization A form of relational disengagement where an individual stops all the interaction that is not task-focused or simply avoids the person.        
    Depression A psychological disorder characterized by varying degrees of disappointment, guilt, hopelessness, loneliness, sadness, self-doubt, all of which negatively impact a person’s general mental and physical wellbeing.        
    Describing Being detailed focused on what is occurring while putting it into words.        
    Deviant Workplace Behavior The voluntary behavior of organizational members that violates significant organizational norms and practices or threatens the wellbeing of the organization and its members.        
    Differentiating The stage of coming apart where both people are trying to figure out their own identities.        
    Directive Support The factor of Hersey and Blanchard’s situational-leadership model that involves a leader overseeing the day-to-day tasks that a follower accomplishes.        
    Directness The least secretive of the strategies and involves asking the relational partner about his/her feelings toward the relationship and commitment to the relationship. Alternatively, an individual might disclose their feelings about the relationship with the hope that the relationship partner will reciprocate.        
    Disagreement A difference of opinion between two or more people or groups of people.        
    Discourse Spoken or written discussion of a subject.        
    Dismissing Attachment Attachment style posed by Kim Bartholomew and Leonard Horowitz describing individuals who see themselves as worthy of love, but generally believe that others will be deceptive and reject them in interpersonal relationships.        
    Distributive Conflict A win-lose approach, whereby conflicting parties see their job as to win and make sure the other person or group loses.        
    Diverge Adapting your communication style to the speaker to be drastically different.        
    Dogmatism The inclination to believe one’s point-of-view as undeniably true based on insufficient premises and without consideration of evidence and the opinions of others.        
    Dominant Culture The established language, religion, behavior, values, rituals, and social customs of a society.        
    Dunning–Kruger Effect The tendency of some people to inflate their expertise when they really have nothing to back up that perception.        
    Duration The length of time of your relationship.        
    Dysfluencies Speech problems that keep your speech from being as smooth and flowing as it could be.        
    Ease of Opportunity When romantic workplace relationships happen because work fosters an environment where people are close to one another.        
    Effective Communication Communication that helps an individual achieve a desired personal outcome.        
    Emblems Kinesics that are clear and unambiguous and have a verbal equivalent in a given culture.        
    Emotional Awareness An individual’s ability to clearly express, in words, what they are feeling and why.        
    Emotional Blackmail Trying to influence someone’s behavior or persuade them to do something by making them feel guilty or exploiting their emotions.        
    Emotional Intelligence An individual’s appraisal and expression of their emotions and the emotions of others in a manner that enhances thought, living, and communicative interactions.        
    Emotional Loneliness Form of loneliness that occurs when an individual feels that he or she does not have an emotional connection with others.        
    Emotional Vampires A colloquial term used to describe individuals with whom we interact that use more of our emotional resources when interacting with people, which often causes an increase in our levels of stress.        
    Emotions The physical reactions to stimuli in the outside environment.        
    Empathic Listening Attempting to put yourself in another person’s shoes or to provide a supportive listening environment.        
    Empathizing This is used to show that you identify with the speaker’s information.        
    Empathy The ability to recognize and mutually experience another person’s attitudes, emotions, experiences, and thoughts.        
    Endurance Test Form of secret testing in which the partner is tested by engaging in actions that the partner might perceive to be a cost in the relationship.        
    Environment The context or situation in which communication occurs.        
    Eros Romantic love involving serial monogamous relationships.        
    Ethics The set of moral values each person carries throughout life—concepts of what is right and wrong, good and bad, or just and unjust.        
    Ethics The judgmental attachment to whether something is good, right, or just.        
    Ethnocentrism The degree to which an individual views the world from their own culture’s perspective while evaluating different cultures according to their own culture’s preconceptions often accompanied by feelings of dislike, mistrust, or hate for cultures deemed inferior.        
    Euphemism Replacing blunt words with more polite words.        
    Evaluative Listening Listening for a speaker’s main points and determining the strengths and weaknesses to formulate a rebuttal or present important points that may not have been covered.        
    Excuse-Making Any time an individual attempts to shift the blame for an individual’s behavior from reasons more central to the individual to sources outside of their control in the attempt to make themselves look better and more in control.        
    Experimenting The stage of coming together “Small talk” occurs at this stage and you are searching for commonalities.        
    Expert Power The ability of an individual to influence another because of their level of perceived knowledge or skill.        
    Expressive Roles that are relationship-oriented.        
    Expressive Communication Messages that are sent either verbally or nonverbally related to an individual’s emotions and feelings.        
    External Locus of Control The belief that an individual’s behavior and circumstances exist because of forces outside the individual’s control.        
    Extraversion An individual’s likelihood to be talkative, dynamic, and outgoing.        
    Eye Gaze The act of fixing your eyes on someone.        
    Face The standing or position a person has in the eyes of others.        
    Family Two or more people tied by marriage, blood, adoption, or choice; living together or apart by choice or circumstance; having interaction within family roles; creating and maintaining a common culture; being characterized by economic cooperation; deciding to have or not to have children, either own or adopted; having boundaries; and claiming mutual affection.        
    Fearful Attachment Attachment style posed by Kim Bartholomew and Leonard Horowitz describing individuals who see themselves as unworthy of love and generally believe that others will react negatively through either deception or rejection.        
    Feedback Information shared back to the source of communication that keeps the communication moving crward and thus making communication a process.        
    Feelings The responses to thoughts and interpretations given to emotions based on experiences, memory, expectations, and personality.        
    Feminine Cultures focused on having a good working relationship with one’s manager and coworkers, cooperating with people at work, and security (both job and familial).        
    Followership The act or condition under which an individual helps or supports a leader in the accomplishment of organizational goals.        
    Formal Language Specific writing and spoken style that adheres to strict conventions of grammar that uses complex sentences, full words, and third-person pronouns.        
    Gender The psychological characteristics that determine if a person is feminine or masculine.        
    Genogram A pictorial representation of a family across generations that can be used to track generations of family interactions, medical issues, psychological issues, relationship patterns, and any other variable a researcher or clinician may be interested in studying.        
    Goals Expectations about how the relationship will function.        
    Group Three or more people interacting together to achieve a common goal.        
    Haptics The study of touch as a form of communication.        
    Hearing A passive activity where an individual perceives sound by detecting vibrations through an ear.        
    Hedge To use words or phrases that weaken the certainty of a statement.        
    Heuristic Function The use of language to explore and investigate the world, solve problems, and learn from your discoveries and experiences.        
    High-Context Cultures Cultures that interpret meaning by relying more on nonverbal context or behavior than on verbal symbols in communication.        
    Ideal-Self The version of yourself that you would like to be, which is created through our life experiences, cultural demands, and expectations of others.        
    Identification When an individual accepts influence because they want to have a satisfying relationship with the influencer or influencing group.        
    Ideology of traditionalism Marriages that are marked by a more historically traditional, conservative perspective of marriage.        
    Idiom Expression or figure of speech whose meaning cannot be understood by looking at the individual words and interpreting them literally.        
    Illustrators Kinesics that emphasize or explain a word.        
    Imaginative Function The use of language to play with ideas that do not exist in the realworld.        
    Importance to Identity The degree to which group membership is important to an individual.        
    Independents Marital definition where couples have a high level of interdependence, an unconventional ideology, and high levels of conflict engagement.        
    Indigenous Peoples Populations that originated in a particular place rather than moved there.        
    Indirect Suggestions Joking or hinting about more serious stages of a relationships such as marriage or having children.        
    Individualism Characteristics of a culture that values being self-reliant and selfmotivated, believes in personal freedom and privacy, and celebrates personal achievement.        
    Individuality Aspect of Murray Bowen’s family system theory that emphasizes that there is a universal, biological life force that propels organisms toward separateness, uniqueness, and distinctiveness.        
    Indulgence Cultural orientation marked by immediate gratification for individual desires.        
    Inflection Changes in vocal pitch.        
    Influence When an individual or group of people alters another person’s thinking, feelings, and/or behaviors through accidental, expressive, or rhetorical communication.        
    Informal Language Specific writing and spoken style that is more colloquial or common in tone; contains simple, direct sentences; uses contractions and abbreviations; and allows for a more personal approach that includes emotional displays.        
    Information Peers Type of coworker who we rely on for information about job tasks and the organization itself.        
    Informational Power A social agent’s ability to bring about a change in thought, feeling, and/or behavior through information.        
    Initiating The stage of coming together where a person is interested in making contact and it is brief.        
    Instrumental Roles that are focused on being task-oriented.        
    Instrumental Function The use of language as a means for meeting your needs, manipulating and controlling your environment, and expressing your feelings.        
    Integrating This is the stage of coming together where you take on an identity as a social unit or give up characteristics of your old self.        
    Integrative Conflict A win-win approach to conflict, whereby both parties attempt to come to a settled agreement that is mutually beneficial.        
    Intensifying The stage of coming together where two people truly become a couple.        
    Intensity The volume of your speech; how loudly or softly you express yourself.        
    Intention Factor of mindful practice that involves being aware of why you are doing something.        
    Interaction Model Communication model that views the sender and the receiver as responsible for the effectiveness of the communication.        
    Interaction Variability The ability to talk about various topics.        
    Interactional Function The use of language to help you form and maintain relationships.        
    Interdependence When individuals involved in a relationship characterize it as continuous and important.        
    Interdependent A relationship in which people need each other or depend on each other in some way, and the actions of one person affect the other.        
    Internal Locus of Control The belief that an individual can control their behavior and life circumstances.        
    Internalization When an individual adopts influence and alters their thinking, feeling, and/or behaviors because doing so is intrinsically rewarding.        
    Internet Characteristics Internet characteristic that influence Internet relationships such as speed, reach, interactivity, and anonymity.        
    Internet Infidelity Sexual energy of any sort—thoughts, feelings, and behaviors—outside of a committed sexual relationship in such a way that it damages the relationship, and pretending that this drain in energy will affect neither one’s partner nor the relationship as long as it remains undiscovered.        
    Interpersonal Communication The exchange of messages between two people.        
    Interpreting Interpretation is the act of assigning meaning to a stimulus and then determining the worth of the object (evaluation).        
    Intimacy Close and deeply personal contact with another person.        
    Intimate Partner Violence Includes physical violence, sexual violence, stalking, and psychological aggression.        
    Intrapersonal Something that exists or occurs within an individual’s self or mind.        
    Intrapersonal Communication Communication phenomena that exist within or occurs because of an individual’s self or mind.        
    Introversion An individual’s likelihood to be quiet, shy, and more reserved        
    Jargon The specialized or technical language particular to a specific profession, occupation, or group that is either meaningless or difficult for outsiders to understand.        
    Johari Window A model that illustrates self-disclosure and the process by which you interact with other people.        
    Kinesics The study of visible means of communicating using body language such as eye behavior, facial expression, body posture and movement, and hand gestures.        
    Language A system of human communication using a particular form of spoken or written words or other symbols.        
    Language Adaptation The ability to alter one’s linguistic choices in a communicatively competent manner        
    Language Awareness A person’s ability to be mindful and sensitive to all functions and forms of language.        
    Launching Stage Period in a family life cycle when late adolescents leave the parental home and venture out into the world as young singles themselves.        
    Leader-member Exchange Theory of leadership that explores how leaders enter into two-way relationships with followers through a series of exchange agreements enabling followers to grow or be held back.        
    Legitimate Power Influence that occurs because a person (P) believes that the social agent (A) has a valid right (generally based on cultural or hierarchical standing) to influence P, and P has an obligation to accept A’s attempt to influence P’s thoughts, feelings, and/or behaviors.        
    Linguistic Determinism The perspective that language influences thoughts.        
    Linguistic Relativity The view that language contains special characteristics.        
    Listening A complex psychological process that can be defined as the process of physically hearing, interpreting that sound, and understanding the significance of it.        
    Locus of Control An individual’s perceived control over their behavior and life circumstances.        
    Loneliness An individual’s emotional distress that results from a feeling of solitude or isolation from social relationships.        
    Long-Term Orientation Cultural orientation where individuals focus on the future and not the present or past.        
    Love Love is a multidimensional concept that can include several different orientations toward the loved person such as romantic love (attraction based on physical beauty or handsomeness), best friend love, passionate love, unrequited love (love that is not returned), and companionate love (affectionate love and tenderness between people).        
    Love Style Love style is considered an attitude that influences an individual’s perception of love        
    Low-Context Cultures Cultures that interpret meaning by placing a great deal of emphasis on the words someone uses.        
    Ludus Love in which games are played. Lying and deceit are acceptable.        
    Machiavellianism Personality trait posed by Richard Christie where cunningness and deceit are exalted as a means of attaining and maintaining power to accomplish specific, self-centered goals.        
    Mania Obsessive love that requires constant reassurance.        
    Masculine Cultures focused on items like earnings, recognition, advancement, and challenge.        
    Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs Theory of motivation proposed by Abraham Maslow comprising a five-tier, hierarchical pyramid of needs: physiological, safety, love, esteem, and self-actualization.        
    Maternal Deprivation Hypothesis Hypothesis posed by John Bowley that predicts that infants who are denied maternal attachment will experience problematic outcomes later in life.        
    Mediated Communication The use of some form of technology to facilitate information between two or more people.        
    Membership Esteem The degree to which an individual sees themself as a “good” member of a group.        
    Metacognitive CQ The degree to which an individual is consciously aware of their intercultural interactions in a manner that helps them have more effective interpersonal experiences with people from differing cultures.        
    Metamessage The meaning beyond the words themselves.        
    Microculture Cultural patterns of behavior influenced by cultural beliefs, values, norms, and rules based on a specific locality or within an organization.        
    Mindful Awareness To be consciously aware of your physical presence, cognitive processes, and emotional state while engaged in an activity.        
    Mindful Communication The process of interacting with others while engaging in mindful awareness and practice        
    Mindful Practice The conscious development of skills such as greater ability to direct and sustain our attention, less reactivity, greater discernment and compassion, and enhanced capacity to disidentify from one’s concept of self.        
    Model A simplified representation of a system (often graphic) that highlights the important components and connections of concepts, which are used to help people understand an aspect of the real-world.        
    Motivational CQ The degree to which an individual desires to engage in intercultural interactions and can easily adapt to differing cultural environments.        
    Narcissism A psychological condition (or personality disorder) in which a person has a preoccupation with one’s self.        
    Noise Anything that can interfere with the message being sent or received.        
    Nonconfrontational Behavior Behaviors include spreading rumors, gossiping, and social manipulation.        
    Nonjudging of Inner Experience Being consciously aware of one’s thoughts, feelings, and attitudes without judging them.        
    Nonreactivity to Inner Experience Taking a step back and evaluating things from a more logical, dispassionate perspective.        
    Nonverbal Vocalization A type of paralanguage that consists of sounds, noises, and behaviors that are often accompanied by body language.        
    Norms Informal guidelines about what is acceptable or proper social behavior within a specific culture.        
    Observing Being aware of what is going on inside yourself and in the external environment.        
    Oculesics Communication involving eye behavior such as eye contact, gaze, and avoidance.        
    Olfactics The use of scent to communicate.        
    Organizing Organizing is making sense of the stimuli or assigning meaning to it.        
    Ostracized Excluded or removed from a group by others in that group.        
    Paralanguage Voice characteristics and nonverbal vocalizations that communicate feelings, intentions, and meanings.        
    Paraphrase To restate what another person said using different words.        
    Perception The process of acquiring, interpreting, and organizing information that comes in through your five senses.        
    Personal Function The use of language to help you form your identity or sense of self.        
    Personal Responsibility An individual’s willingness to be accountable for how they feel, think, and behave.        
    Personality The combination of traits or qualities such as behavior, emotional stability, and mental attributes that make a person unique.        
    Physical Attraction The degree to which one person finds another person aesthetically pleasing.        
    Physical Bullying Involves hitting, kicking, pulling hair, strapping a female’s bra strap or giving a “wedgie.        
    Pitch The placement of your voice on the musical scale; the basis on which singing voices are classified as soprano, alto, tenor, baritone, or bass voices.        
    Platonic A close relationship that is not physical.        
    Power The degree that a social agent (A) has the ability to get another person(s) (P) to alter their thoughts, feelings, and/or behaviors.        
    Power Distance The degree to which those people and organizations with less power within a culture accept and expect that power is unequally distributed within their culture.        
    Pragma Love involving logic and reason.        
    Preoccupied Attachment Attachment style posed by Kim Bartholomew and Leonard Horowitz describing individuals who do not perceive themselves as worthy of love, but do generally see people as trustworthy and available for interpersonal relationships.        
    Private Collective Esteem The degree to which an individual positively evaluates their group.        
    Procedural Disagreement Disagreements concerned with procedure, how a decision should be reached or how a policy should be implemented.        
    Profession An occupation that involves mastery of complex knowledge and skills through prolonged training, education, or practical experience.        
    Professionalism The aims and behaviors that demonstrate an individual’s level of competence expected by a professional within a given profession.        
    Proxemics The use of space to communicate.        
    Public Collective Self-Esteem The degree to which nonmembers of a group evaluate a group and its members either positively or negatively.        
    Public Communication Form of communication where an individual or group of individuals sends a specific message to an audience.        
    Racism Bias against others on the basis of their race or ethnicity.        
    Racist Language Language that demeans or insults people based on their race or ethnicity.        
    Reasons for Relational Aggression Women’s explanations for relational aggression: (a) girls will be girls; (b) venting; (c) blaming the victim; (d) minimizing their role; and (e) regret        
    Receiver The receiver decodes the message in an environment that includes noise.        
    Referent Power A social agent’s (A) ability to influence another person (P) because P wants to be associated with A.        
    Regulate Nonverbal communication which controls the flow of conversation.        
    Regulators Kinesics that help coordinate the flow of conversation.        
    Regulatory Function The use of language to control behavior.        
    Rejection Sensitivity The degree to which an individual expects to be rejected, readily perceives rejection when occurring, and experiences an intensely negative reaction to that rejection.        
    Relational Aggression Behaviors that harm others. Harm is created through damaging social relationship or feelings of acceptance.        
    Relational Bullying The manipulation of social relationships to inflict hurt upon another individual.        
    Relational Dispositions General patterns of mental processes that impact how people view and organize themselves in relationships.        
    Relational Maintenance Degree of difficulty individuals experience in interpersonal relationships due to misunderstandings, incompatibility of goals, and the time and effort necessary to cope with disagreements.        
    Relationship A connection, association, or attachment that people have with each other.        
    Relationship Dialectic Tensions in a relationship where individuals need to deal with integration vs. separation, expression vs. privacy, and stability vs. change.        
    Relationship Level The type of relationship between people as evidenced through their communication.        
    Relationship Maintenance Strategies to help your relationship be successful and satisfying.        
    Relative Language Language that gains understanding by comparison.        
    Repeat Nonverbal communication that repeats verbal communication, but could stand alone.        
    Representational Function The use of language to represent objects and ideas and to express your thoughts.        
    Responsiveness The degree to which an individual considers other’s feelings, listens to what others have to say, and recognizes the needs of others during interpersonal interactions.        
    Restraint Cultural orientation marked by the belief that gratification should not be instantaneous and should be regulated by cultural rules and norms.        
    Reward Power The ability to offer an individual rewards for complying with one’s influencing attempts.        
    Rhetorical Communication Purposefully creating and sending messages to another person in the hopes of altering another person’s thinking, feelings, and/or behaviors.        
    Rhythm Variation in the flow of your voice created by differences in the pitch, intensity, tempo, and length of word syllables.        
    Right-Wing Authoritarians Individuals who believe in submitting themselves to established, legitimate authorities; strict adherence to social and cultural norms; and the need to punish those who do not submit to authorities or who violate social and cultural norms.        
    Romantic Relationships Romantic relationships involve a bond of affection with a specific partner that researchers believe involves several psychological features: a desire for emotional closeness and union with the partner, caregiving, emotional dependency on the relationship and the partner, a separation anxiety when the other person is not there, and a willingness to sacrifice for the other love.        
    Romantic Workplace Relationship When two employees have acknowledged their mutual attraction to one another and have physically acted upon their romantic feelings in the form of a dating or otherwise intimate association.        
    Rule Explicit guidelines (generally written down) that govern acceptable or proper social behavior within a specific culture.        
    Sapir-Whorf Hypothesis A theory that suggests that language impacts perceptions. Language is ascertained by the perceived reality of a culture.        
    Secret Tests Indirect strategies individuals use to assess the state of their relationship.        
    Secure Attachment Attachment style posed by Kim Bartholomew and Leonard Horowitz describing individuals who believe that they are loveable and expect that others will generally behave in accepting and responsive ways within interpersonal interactions.        
    Self-Concept An individual’s relatively stable mental picture of him or herself.        
    Self-Conscious Shyness Feeling conspicuous or socially exposed when dealing with others face-to-face.        
    Self-Disclosure The act of verbally or nonverbally revealing information about yourself to other people.        
    Self-Disclosure The process of sharing information with another person.        
    Self-Esteem An individual’s subjective evaluation of their abilities and limitations.        
    Self-Image The view an individual has of themself        
    Self-Monitoring The theory that individuals differ in the degree to which they can control their behaviors in accordance with the appropriate social rules and norms involved in interpersonal interaction.        
    Self-Worth The degree to which you see yourself as a good person who deserves to be valued and respected.        
    Separates Marital definition where couples have low interdependence, conventional ideology, and low levels of conflict engagement.        
    Separation Test Creating physical distance to test the strength of the relationship.        
    Sex The biological characteristics that determine a person as male or female.        
    Sexism Bias of others based on their biological sex.        
    Sexist Language Language that excludes individuals on the basis of gender or shows a bias toward or against people due to their gender.        
    Sharing The process of revealing and disclosing information about yourself with another.        
    Short-Term Orientation Cultural orientation where individuals focus on the past or present and not in the future.        
    Shyness Discomfort when an individual is interacting with another person(s) in a social situation.        
    Sibling Hostility Characteristic of sibiling relationships where sibling behaviors as causing trouble, getting into fights, teasing/name-calling, taking things without permission, etc.        
    Sibling Warmth Characteristic of sibiling relationships where sibling behaviors such as sharing secrets, helping each other, teaching each other, showing physical affection, sharing possessions, etc.        
    Silent Listening This occurs when you say nothing and is appropriate for certain situations.        
    Similarity When romantic workplace relationships occur because people find coworkers have similar personalities, interests, backgrounds, desires, needs, goals, etc.…        
    Slang The nonstandard language of a particular culture or subculture.        
    Social Attraction The degree to which an individual sees another person as entertaining, intriguing, and fun to be around.        
    Social Loneliness Form of loneliness that occurs from a lack of a satisfying social network.        
    Social Penetration Theory Theory originally created by Altman and Taylor to explain how individuals gradually become more intimate as individuals selfdisclose more and those self-disclosures become more intimate (deep).        
    Social Support The perception and actuality that an individual receives assistance, care, and help from those people within their life.        
    Social-Personal Dispositions General patterns of mental processes that impact how people socially relate to others or view themselves.        
    Sociocommunicative Orientation The degree to which an individual communicates using responsive or assertive communication techniques.        
    Socio-Orientation Family communication pattern where similarity is valued over individuality and self-expression, and harmony is preferred over expression of opinion.        
    Source The person initiating communication and encoding the message and selecting the channel.        
    Special Peer Type of coworker relationship marked by high levels of trust and selfdisclosure; like a “best friend” in the workplace.        
    Spin The manipulation of language to achieve the most positive interpretation of words, to gain political advantage, or to deceive others.        
    Stagnating The stage of coming apart where you are behaving in old familiar ways without much feeling. In other words, there is lost enthusiasm for old familiar things.        
    State-of-the-Relationship Talk A form of relational disengagement where an individual explains to a coworker that a workplace friendship is ending.        
    Static Evaluation Language shows that people and things change.        
    Stereotype A set of beliefs about the personal attributes of a social group.        
    Storge Love that develops slowly out of friendship.        
    Substantive Disagreement A disagreement that people have about a specific topic or issue.        
    Substitute Nonverbal communication that has a direct verbal translation.        
    Support The ability to provide assistance, aid, or comfort to another.        
    Supportive Leadership Behavior The factor of Hersey and Blanchard’s situational-leadership model that occurs when a leader is focused on providing relational support for their followers        
    Symbol A mark, object, or sign that represents something else by association, resemblance, or convention        
    Symmetrical Relationship A relationship between people who see themselves as equals.        
    System Sets of elements standing in interrelation.        
    Task Attraction The degree to which an individual is attracted to another person because they possess specific knowledge and/or skills that help that individual accomplish specific goals.        
    Temperament The genetic predisposition that causes an individual to behave, react, and think in a specific manner.        
    Tempo The rate of your speech; how slowly or quickly you talk.        
    Terminating This is a summary of where the relationship has gone wrong and a desire to quit. It usually depends on: problems (sudden/gradual); negotiations to end (short/long); the outcome (end/continue in another form).        
    The Hookup When romantic workplace relationships occur because individuals want to engage in casual sex without any romantic entanglements.        
    Third-Culture When a couple negotiates their cultural background with the cultural background of their partner essentially creating a third-culture or hybrid culture between the two.        
    Third-Party Testing Involving a third party such as friend or family to gain insight into the relationship.        
    Timbre (pronounced “TAM-ber”) The overall quality and tone, which is often called the “color” of your voice; the primary vocal quality that makes your voice either pleasant or disturbing to listen to.        
    Time When romantic workplace relationships occur because people put in a great deal of time at work, so they are around and interact with potential romantic partners a great deal of the average workday.        
    Togetherness Aspect of Murray Bowen’s family system theory that emphasizes the complementary, universal, biological life force that propels organisms toward relationship, attachment, and connectedness.        
    Tolerance for Disagreement The degree to which an individual can openly discuss differing opinions without feeling personally attacked or confronted.        
    Traditionals Marital definition where couples are highly interdependent, conventional ideology, and high levels of conflict engagement        
    Transactional Model Communication model that demonstrate that individuals are often acting as both the sender and receiver simultaneously.        
    Triangle Test Manipulating a third party to gain information about the nature of the relationship.        
    Types of Workplace Bullying Workplace bullying involves isolation and exclusion, intimidation and threats, verbal threats, damaging professional identity, limiting career opportunities, obstructing work or making work-life difficult, and denial of due process and natural justice.        
    Uncertainty Avoidance The extent to which cultures as a whole are fearful of ambiguous and unknown situations.        
    Uncertainty Reduction Theory The tendency of human beings to eliminate unknown elements of individuals whom they have just met. Individuals wish to predict what another person thinks and how another person behaves. Strategies for reducing uncertainty include passive, active, and interactive.        
    Undifferentiated A person who does not possess either masculine or feminine characteristics.        
    Undifferentiated space The degree to which spouses do not see her/his/their ownership of personal belongings as much as they do ownership as a couple.        
    Values Important and lasting principles or standards held by a culture about desirable and appropriate courses of action or outcomes.        
    Verbal Aggression The tendency to attack the self-concept of individuals instead of, or in addition to, their positions on topics of communication.        
    Verbal Bullying Includes threats, degrading comments, teasing, name-calling, putdown or sarcastic comments        
    Verbal The sounds humans make as they attempt to fill dead air while they are thinking of what to say next (e.g., uhh, umm).        
    Versatility The degree to which an individual can utilize both responsiveness and assertiveness that is appropriate and effective during various communication contexts and interpersonal interactions.        
    Vocabulary All the words understood by a person or group of people.        
    Vocalics Vocal utterances, other than words, that serve as a form of communication.        
    Willingness to Communicate An individual’s tendency to initiate communicative interactions with other people.        
    Workplace Socialization The process by which new organizational members learn the rules (e.g., explicit policies, explicit procedures, etc.), norms (e.g., when you go on break, how to act at work, who to eat with, who not to eat with), and culture (e.g., innovation, risk-taking, team orientation, competitiveness) of an organization.        
    “You” Statements Moralistic judgments where we imply the wrongness or badness of another person and the way they have behaved.        
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