Tyler remembers when his older daughter Janelle was born. She was fussy and cried all night, slept at random times throughout the day, and preferred to be held by her father. But now that his second child Monique is here, Tyler cannot believe the difference. Monique seems so content, sleeps soundly, and wakes up happy. She’s social and coos happily when others hold her. Tyler wonders why his two daughters are so different. Has he become a better father, so his parenting style has led Monique to feel more secure? Perhaps. But most likely, Janelle and Monique were born with different temperaments, showing different moods and different levels of activity and sociability.
As Tyler’s daughters grow older, he may discover that the differences between them are sustaining and long-lasting, because temperament is often a precursor to personality. However, Tyler’s parenting also matters. The way he responds to Janelle and Monique’s temperamental and emotional needs can shape how effectively they develop a sense of trust, autonomy, and self-confidence, even in the first few years of life.
In this section, you’ll learn more about various theories of temperament, the way temperament unfolds and interacts with the environment, and the way personality begins to form in infants and toddlers.
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