Fifty-six-year-old Patricia considers herself to be in a happy long-term partnership. Even though sex is less frequent, there is more focus on emotional intimacy, and she is still very satisfied with her sex life. The couple’s physical relationship is nurturing, with lots of affection, and sex is more meaningful, because it is built on shared experiences, respect and acceptance of one another, and knowledge of what each enjoys and dislikes. Overall, Patricia would describe their sexual relationship as loving and complete.
As middle adulthood progresses, people experience changes in their reproductive ability as well as in their sexual behavior and attitudes. The median age of first birth in the United States is now thirty years old, so middle adulthood may include the experience of pregnancy for many. Toward the latter half of middle adulthood, the ability to reproduce declines and then is lost altogether during the life stage known as the climacteric. The associated hormonal transitions can result in a variety of physical changes along with changes to cognition, emotion, and sexual experiences. Most individuals continue to engage in sex throughout middle adulthood, experiencing several physical and cognitive benefits.
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