3.6: Insider, Outsider, and Identity
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Ethnicity
Gender
Gender vs. Sex
Gender tends to be an identity. Sexuality can be an identity (particularly in the West), but this isn't always the case.
Other forms of Gender Around the World
One common assumption is that all cultures divide human beings into two and only two genders, a binary or dualistic model of gender. However, in some cultures gender is more fluid and flexible, allowing individuals born as one biologic sex to assume another gender or creating more than two genders.
Examples of non-binary cultures come from pre-contact Native America. Anthropologists such as Ruth Benedict long ago identified a phenomenon of “two-spirit” people, individuals who do not comfortably conform to the gender roles and gender ideology normally associated with their biologic sex.
The third gender category of some form of “two-spirit” is found in over 150 Native American cultures. In terms of bodies, the most common two spirits would be assigned as having a male body at birth, but some would be assigned as physical females or intersex. In most Native American cultures, two spirit people do some women’s work and mix together roles, dress, and behavior of both men and women. Since they are neither male nor female, they are often seen as mediators between men and women and/or between physical or spiritual worlds. This idea is often connected to the group’s cosmology. For example, among the Navajo, the creator, Changing Woman, has both male and female aspects. Two spirit people are an example of where variation in bodies or gender identity is sanctified and not viewed as a threat or an exception.
Similarly, the Zuni people of New Mexico, beginning in the pre-contact era, lived in a relatively gender-egalitarian horticultural society. Individuals could choose an alternative role of “not-men” or “not-women.” A two-spirited Zuni man would do the work and wear clothing normally associated with females, having shown a preference for female-identified activities and symbols at an early age. In some, but not all cases, they would marry a man. Early European ethnocentric reports often described it as a form of homosexuality. Anthropologists suggested more-complex motivations, including dreams of selection by spirits, individual psychologies, biological characteristics, and negative aspects of male roles (e.g., warfare). Most significantly, these alternative gender roles were acceptable, publicly recognized, and sometimes venerated.
A well-known example of a non-binary gender system is found among the Hijra in India. Often called a third gender, these individuals are usually biologically male but adopt female clothing, gestures, and names; may eschew sexual desire and sexual activity; and go through religious rituals that give them certain divine powers, including blessing or cursing couples’ fertility and performing at weddings and births. Hijra sometimes undergo voluntary surgical removal of genitals through a “nirvan” or rebirth operation. Some hijra are males born with ambiguous external genitals.
Research has shown that individuals with ambiguous genitals, sometimes called “intersex,” are surprisingly common. Scholars estimate that intersex individuals constitute at least two percent of human births. So what are cultures to do when faced with an infant or child who cannot easily be “sexed?” Many Western cultures ultimately force children into one of the two binary categories, even if it requires surgery or hormone therapy. But in other places, like India and among the Isthmus Zapotec in southern Oaxaca, Mexico, they created a third gender category with an institutional identity and role to perform in society.
These cross-cultural examples demonstrate that the traditional rigid binary gender model in the United States is neither universal nor necessary. While all cultures recognize at least two biological sexes, usually based on genitals visible at birth, and have created at least two gender roles, many cultures go beyond the binary model, offering a third or fourth gender category. Other cultures allow individuals to adopt, without sanctions, a gender role that is not congruent with their biological sex.
Gender Roles
Even societies with a binary gender system exhibit enormous variability in the meanings and practices associated with being male or female. Sometimes male-female distinctions pervade virtually all aspects of life, structuring space, work, social life, communication, body decoration, and expressive forms such as music. For instance, both genders may farm, but may have separate fields for “male” and “female” crops and gender-specific crop rituals. Or, the village public space may be spatially segregated with a “men’s house” (a special dwelling only for men, like a “men’s club”) and a “women’s house.” In some societies, even when married couples occupy the same house, the space within the house is divided into male and female areas.
Women and men can also have gender-specific religious rituals and deities and use gender-identified tools. There are cases of male and female foods, rains, dances, hairstyles, and communication forms (including words, verb forms, pronouns, inflections, and writing systems); one example is the Nu Shu writing system used by some women in parts of China in the twentieth century). Gender ideologies can emphasize differences in character, capacities, and morality, sometimes portraying males and females as “opposite” poles on a continuum.
In societies that are highly segregated by gender, gender relationships sometimes may be seen as hostile or oppositional with one of the genders (usually female) viewed as potentially threatening. Female bodily fluids, such as menstrual blood and vaginal secretions, can be dangerous, damaging to men, “impure,” and “polluting,” especially in ritual contexts. In other cases, however, menstrual blood is associated with positive power. A girl’s first menstruation may be celebrated publicly with elaborate community rituals, as among the Bemba in southern Africa, and subsequent monthly flows bring special privileges. The Navajo carry out a puberty ceremony called Kinaalda to transition a girl to a woman in correspondence with her first menstrual cycle. In some small-scale societies (like the Sambia or Simbari in Papua New Guinea), menstrual bleeding is considered so powerful that men perform ritualized self-induced nose-bleeding called “male menstruation.” The meanings of these rituals are quite complex.
A Western, male-dominated binary can limit our ability to understand alternative models of gender—including other binary-dominated frameworks. Not all binary cultures are segregated by gender; nor does hostility necessarily accompany gender separation. Nor are all binary cultures deeply concerned with regulating female sexuality and marriage. Premarital and extra-marital sex can even be common and acceptable, as among the !Kung San and Trobriand Islanders.
Different need not mean unequal. The Lahu of southwest China and Thailand exemplify a complementary gender system in which men and women have distinct expected roles but a male-female pair is necessary to accomplish most daily tasks. A male-female pair historically took responsibility for local leadership. Male-female dyads completed daily household tasks in tandem and worked together in the fields. The title of anthropologist Shanshan Du’s book, Chopsticks Only Work in Pairs (1999), encapsulates how complementary gender roles defined Lahu society. A single chopstick is not very useful; neither is a single person, man or woman, in a dual-focused society.
Like the Lahu, the nearby Na believe men and women both play crucial roles in a family and household. Women are associated with birth and life while men take on tasks such as butchering animals and preparing for funerals. Every Na house has two large pillars in the central hearth room, one representing male identity and one representing female identity. Both are crucial, and the house might well topple symbolically without both pillars. As sociologist Zhou Huashan explained in his 2002 book about the Na, this is a society that “values women without diminishing men.”
Anthropologists have also encountered relatively androgynous gender-binary cultures. In these cultures, some gender differentiation exists but “gender bending” and role-crossing are frequent, accepted, and reflect circumstances and individual capacities and preferences. Even cultures with well-defined gender roles do not necessarily view them as fixed, biologically rooted, permanent, “essentialist,” or “naturalized” as occurred in the traditional gender ideology in the United States. Gender may not even be an “identity” in a psychological sense but, rather (and perhaps more commonly across human history), a social role one assumes in a particular social context.
In recent decades, anthropologists have come to understand that this “social context” includes food acquisition and child-bearing—namely, that the concept of “man the hunter” is a myth. All cultures have creation stories that address the origins of males and females, their relationships, and often explain the dominance of one gender over the other. Scientific theories in the 19th and early 20th centuries, shaped by Darwinian ideas, perpetuated the belief that male dominance is universal, rooted in evolutionary biology and the “hunting way of life.” This view argued that men, as hunters and providers, developed traits like strength, aggression, and leadership, while women, engaged in child-rearing, became dependent on men for survival. These ideas, reflected in cultural stereotypes, suggested that men are naturally suited for leadership and women for domestic roles, shaping societal attitudes about gender roles, from household dynamics to political participation.
However, decades of research have challenged these theories, particularly the notion that hunting was central to early human survival and male dominance. Studies on primates and early foraging societies reveal that female roles were much more active, with women often gathering the bulk of food and sometimes hunting themselves. Gender roles were not universally tied to hunting or biological determinism, and in many societies, both men and women contributed equally to survival through cooperation and shared responsibilities. The historical assumptions about male superiority and female passivity, deeply rooted in patriarchal narratives, have been debunked by evidence showing the complexity and flexibility of early human social structures.
Sexuality & Sexual Acts
This section contains descriptions of sexual acts that Western readers may find objectionable. The key take-away is that sexual acts, sexual attraction, and the link between gender, sex, and sexuality are not universal or easy to define.
Unraveling the hunting-way-of-life scenario, especially female dependence on males, undermines the naturalness of the Western (United States) “nuclear family” with its male-provider-protector and female-domestic-child-care division of labor. As we saw in the previous chapter, more than one hundred years of cross-cultural research reveals the varied forms humans invented for “partnering”—living in households, raising children, establishing long-term relationships, transmitting valuables to offspring, and other behaviors associated with family. Once again, the universality and evolutionary origins of the American family is more fiction than fact, a projection of our cultural model of family and gender on the past and the entire human species.
Like gender, sexuality has a biological component—if only to the extent that sex organs are biological simply by being organs. There is also a biological relationship between parents and offspring—again, more obvious in the case of the mother since the baby develops in and emerges from her body. Nevertheless, DNA and genes are real and influence the traits and potentialities of the next generation. Beyond those biological realities, culture and society seem to take over, building on—or ignoring—biology. We all know there are biological fathers unaware of or not concerned about their biological offspring and not involved in their care and biological mothers who, after giving birth, give up their children through adoption or to other family members. We also know that reproduction is only a small fraction of sexual attraction, roles, and behaviors.
Even the concept of sexual ‘attraction’ can be problematic from a culturally relative perspective. The connection between sexual relationships, marriage or formal bonding, and sexual relationships—ideas about “the one” or “soulmates,” for example—are not universal.
For the purposes of our understanding this week, we might simply say that ‘sexuality’ describes how a culture maps gender roles onto sexual behavior. Therefore, the sexuality of a culture depends on how the culture defines sex, gender, and sexual behaviors!
The concept of “homosexual men,” for example, exists in our culture because we map sexual attraction between ‘males’ to that term—and typically use that term ‘male’ in that mapping to refer to individuals who are both male in terms of sex and gender. In cultures where a man (by biological sex characteristics) may have the role of a woman (such as in a “third gender”), a man being sexually attracted to this individual may not be seen as homosexual.
The Sambia (Simbari) until relatively recently, practiced a number of rituals for boys’ initiation to manhood. These included stealing them from their mothers, bloodletting from the nose as mentioned above, self-infliction with stinging nettles, and, important to understanding 'sexuality,' ritualized fellatio of adult men. The Simbari believed boys were not born with semen but had to acquire it in this way. From the outside perspective, the boys must perform oral “sex” on adult men to ingest semen. But the Simbari never saw it this way. This ritual obligation was not sexual. In fact, the Simbari have particularly strong views against this sort of act among adult men. They do not see the act as sexual in its ritual context and in fact have a strong cultural taboo against the practice outside of that context because of their beliefs regarding the power and potency of semen. In their theory of human development, semen is a crucial substance for healthy male growth, for eventually marrying a woman and fathering children, and for becoming a “real man.” Ultimately, the act of ingesting semen in this way is decidedly not a sexual act—to the degree that to do it as a sexual act is taboo.
Some individuals in India practice “female-female sexuality” or “male-male sexuality.” While this might involve a deep relationship and intimate sexual behavior, it refers to behavior and social relationships, not some internal, fixed, fundamental identity. In some cultures, whether one is “homosexual” or “heterosexual” is not linked simply to engaging in same-sex sexual behavior. Instead, as among Brazilian males studied by anthropologist Don Kulick, your status in the sexual relationship, literally and symbolically, determines whether you are the inserter or the penetrated.
Complex Categories & Identity
For over two thousand years female and male bodies were not conceptualized in terms of difference. For example, medical texts from ancient Greece until the late eighteenth century defined male and female bodies as similar with the only difference that female bodies have genitalia on the inside. It is not until the late 18th century that we get the concept of sex as we think about it currently–biological differences in males and females–with a focus on difference instead of similarity.
Ultimately, “complex” does not begin to describe the types of variation that exist in gender and sexuality throughout the world, but this cultural reality is often hidden behind a modern (Western) attempt to describe human sex as having purely biological bases. As with race, gender and sexuality help illustrate that nothing cultural is ever 100% biological.
Same-sex sexual and romantic relationships (which can be different) probably exist in every society, but categories like “gay,” “lesbian,” and “bisexual”—and whether there are further categories beyond that—are cultural constructions. They reflect culturally specific beliefs about gender, sexuality, and how sexual preferences develop. As with the ongoing debate around Shakespeare, in many cultures same-sex sex is a behavior, not an identity. Sexual behavior need not correspond to an internal sense of “who you are.” It is something you do, an activity you engage in, for certain purposes, which may or may not be sexual.
Sub-Cultures & Deviance
Another concept important to understanding identity in anthropology is stigma. Stigma is distinct from but related to subculture and deviance. While subcultures represent alternative systems of meaning, practice, and identity that coexist with or challenge mainstream cultural norms while within the framework of the larger culture, and deviance refers to behaviors or attributes that violate those norms, stigma concerns the social consequences of such perceived deviations or other differences. Stigma is not always about deviance—other aspects like ability, class, and other statuses beyond a person's control may be stigmatized. Subcultures may actively cultivate difference as a form of resistance or self-definition, whereas stigma denotes a process of discrediting difference through moral judgment and social exclusion. Not all deviant behaviors are stigmatized, and not all stigmatized identities arise from deviant acts. Instead, stigma reflects the cultural and political work of classification we have seen already—how societies mark some identities as inferior, contaminated, or shameful to reinforce dominant values and social hierarchies.
In anthropology, stigma is the process of social labeling and boundary maintenance. Drawing from the work of sociologist Erving Goffman, the concept of stigma involves the reduction of a person from a “whole and usual” individual to one tainted by an attribute that discredits their social identity. This transformation is contingent upon culturally specific notions of purity, morality, and normalcy, through which certain characteristics—such as illness, disability, sexuality, or ethnicity—become grounds for exclusion. Stigma functions as a mechanism of social control, reinforcing conformity by linking moral worth to bodily and behavioral norms. Stigma is one example of the bassis for sanctions.
At the same time, anthropologists emphasize that stigma is not merely an individual burden but a socially embedded and politically charged phenomenon. It emerges within particular historical and cultural configurations of power, inequality, and value. Ethnographic studies have shown, for example, how the stigmatization of people living with HIV/AIDS, members of lower castes, or migrants reflects broader anxieties about social order, pollution, and belonging. Moreover, those who experience stigma often engage in subtle forms of resistance, reinterpretation, and community formation that challenge dominant discourses. In this sense, stigma is both a site of oppression and a potential ground for the rearticulation of identity and moral personhood within culture.
Those who experience stigma do not passively internalize the devaluing judgments imposed upon them; rather, they often respond through practices of reinterpretation, resistance, and community-making that challenge dominant narratives. In the context of immigration in the United States, for instance, stigmatization frequently emerges through discourses that frame certain migrant populations—particularly Latin American, Middle Eastern, or African groups—as “illegal,” “burdensome,” or “culturally incompatible.” These labels function to morally and politically marginalize migrants, casting them as threats to national integrity or social cohesion. Yet anthropological research reveals that within these conditions of exclusion, migrants actively negotiate meaning and belonging, developing alternative moral and cultural frameworks that affirm their dignity and collective worth.
Such acts of resistance often operate subtly and symbolically rather than through overt confrontation. Immigrant communities, for example, reinterpret stigmatized identities through narratives of hard work, sacrifice, and familial responsibility—qualities that counter the dominant portrayal of them as socially parasitic or criminal. Religious congregations, neighborhood associations, and transnational networks provide spaces for the cultivation of moral legitimacy and mutual recognition, where members assert belonging through ritual, language, and shared memory. Cultural practices such as festivals, food traditions, or bilingual education initiatives serve not only to preserve heritage but also to reclaim public space and visibility in the face of exclusion. These forms of everyday resilience illustrate what anthropologist James C. Scott terms “infrapolitics”: small-scale, often hidden acts that contest hegemonic power. In this way, stigmatized immigrants transform the very symbols of marginality into resources for solidarity and self-definition, unsettling the boundaries between outsider and citizen, deviant and normative, imposed by dominant U.S. cultural discourses.

