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4.5: Spaces for Emotional Regulation

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    Centering Space

    The Centering Space is a designated area of the classroom that students can access to support their emotional self-regulation. The area features cozy seating, resources to help students identify their feelings, and a variety of activities to help students regulate their bodies.

    When students are dysregulated, they are not equipped to participate and benefit from class-wide activities. Taking a quick pause to regroup enables them to come back refocused.

    The Neurosequential Model

    Developed by Dr. Bruce Perry

    An image of a brain. Regulate: In order to connect with others and learn, we need to be physiologically regulated - having a relaxed autonomic nervous system. Relate: In order to reason, we need to be related - connected to and engaged with - our teachers and classmates. Reason - Reasoning - learning - is only possible when we are regulated and related.
    Figure \(\PageIndex{1}\): The Neurosequential Model of regulating, relating, and reasoning

    The Centering Space is effective when it supports children in Regulating, Relating, and being ready to Reason.

    The Centering Space must have:

    • Cozy seating
    • Breathing strategies visuals
    • Visual representation of common feelings
    • Self-regulation tools across the five senses
    • Support with problem-solving
    Using the Centering Space. Explaining what to do when you have big feelings, breathing strategies, recognizing feelings, calming activities, checking in with myself, and identifying a solution.  Also a sign saying "Take three breaths".
    Figure \(\PageIndex{2}\): Signs for a Centering Space

    Cozy Seating - Place child-size, comfortable seating, such as:

    • rug
    • beanbag
    • couch
    • pillows

    Breathing Strategies Visual - Post visual representations of strategies for deep breathing.

    Visual Representation of Feelings - Hang a poster and/or incorporate Feelings Friends soft toys showing a range of common feelings. You may also add a mirror for students to see their own expressions.

    Guidance for using the Centering Space - Hang a poster reminding students of how to use the space, with words and pictures. You could also put the social story in the area.

    Self-Regulation Tools - Gather an assortment of tools appropriate to the age and needs of your students. Choose around 6-8 total tools for your class.

    Supply items across all 5 senses to help students regulate their brain and body. Ideas include:

    • Sight: pictures of family, nature photos, glitter jar, liquid motion timer
    • Hearing: noise-canceling headphones, student-chosen music, nature sounds, recordings of family singing familiar songs or giving reassurance
    • Touch: stuffed animals, dough, putty, squishies
    • Taste: crunchy or chewy snacks, water
    • Smell: aromatherapy sachets, lotion, unlit scented candles, scratch-n-sniff

    Incorporating calm-down tools that support all five senses ensures that students have a variety of options and can choose what works best for them.

    Additional Self-Regulation Tools

    Active Calming posters can help students with body movements to promote physiological regulation.

    Include additional tools to support students with soothing their vagus nerve through breathing: pinwheel, Hoberman sphere, etc.

    Support for Problem-Solving

    Include tools students use for problem-solving.

    • Peace path steps (or similar process)
    • Solution cards
    • Class-made books with student-created solutions

    Children will need support and practice with each step!

    Teach and support children through the following process:

    Big Feelings (when I have a big feeling, I can visit the Centering Space). Breathing Strategies (I take three deep breaths to help regulate my brain and body. Recognizing my feeling (I use the mirror or my Feelings Friends to name how I am feeling.) Calming Activities (I choose an activity that will calm my brain and body). Checking in with myself (I check in with my feelings to see if I'm ready to learn.) Identifying a Solution (I think back to my problem and make a plan for what's next.)
    Figure \(\PageIndex{3}\): Helping children learn how to use the Centering Space.

    Teaching the Centering Space

    Implement a gradual roll-out plan:

    Weeks 1-2:

    • Prioritize safety and connection through rituals and routines.
    • Read a customized Centering Space social story.
    • Teach breathing strategies in Strong Start.

    Weeks 3-4:

    • Use books to teach, practice, and review identifying feelings.
    • Model identifying feelings with Feeling Friends.
    • Teach one or two self-regulation tools.
    • Continue to practice breathing strategies.

    Practice recognizing feelings and choosing an activity to self regulate gives children support for understanding their feelings and moving into a regulated state, ready to learn.

    Weeks 5-6:

    • Brainstorm with the class for how to get help solving the initial problem, and introduce Solution Cards for students who need that support.
    • Introduce and practice the Using the Centering Space steps.
    • Consider making your Centering Space a center rotation for 2-3 weeks.
    • Review social story as needed.
    • Continue adding self-regulation tools one at a time, and model how to use each one.
    • Continue to practice breathing strategies.

    Children are still developing the executive functioning skills to recognize and manage their feelings until their early twenties.

    Implementation Tips

    Centering Space Helper or Encourager is a student job that may provide peer support as needed.

    Do not use the Centering Space as time-out or a punishment. Encourage students to go to the Centering Space and use the tools when they are having big feelings.

    If you are concerned about students spending an unnecessarily long time in the Centering Space, you can add a sand timer to the area to provide a sense of time. However, be aware that feelings don't run on a timer and some big feelings may take longer to resolve than the timer takes to tick down.


    4.5: Spaces for Emotional Regulation is shared under a CC BY-NC-SA license and was authored, remixed, and/or curated by Whole Mind Child.