Erik Erikson (1902–1994) another stage theorist, took Freud’s theory and modified it as psychosocial theory. Erikson’s psychosocial development theory emphasizes the social nature of our development. While Freud believed that personality is shaped only in childhood, Erikson proposed that personality development takes place all through the lifespan. Erikson suggested that how we interact with others is what affects our sense of self, or what he called the ego identity.
Erikson proposed that we are motivated by a need to achieve competence in certain areas of our lives. According to psychosocial theory, we experience eight stages of development over our lifespan, from infancy through late adulthood. At each stage there is a conflict, or task, that we need to resolve. Successful completion of each developmental task results in a sense of competence and a healthy personality. Failure to master these tasks leads to feelings of inadequacy.
According to Erikson (1963), trust is the basis of our development during infancy (birth to 12 months). Therefore, the primary task of this stage is trust versus mistrust. Infants are dependent upon their caregivers, so caregivers who are responsive and sensitive to their infant’s needs help their baby to develop a sense of trust; their baby will see the world as a safe, predictable place. Unresponsive caregivers who do not meet their baby’s needs consistently can engender feelings of anxiety, fear, and mistrust; their baby may see the world as unpredictable and scary.
As toddlers (about age 1–3 years) begin to explore their world, they learn that they can control their actions and act on the environment to get results. They begin to show clear preferences for certain elements of the environment, such as food, toys, and clothing. A toddler’s main task is to resolve the issue of autonomy versus shame and doubt, by working to establish independence. This is the “me do it” stage. For example, we might observe a budding sense of autonomy in a 2-year-old child who wants to choose her clothes and dress herself. Although her outfits might not be appropriate for the situation, her input in such basic decisions has an effect on her sense of independence (one idea to help toddlers when getting dressed, is to select 2-4 outfits that would be appropriate and let them choose which they prefer. Having said that, if you know a toddler, you may not be surprised when they reject ALL of the choices you have selected. This is a gentle reminder to laugh when this happens! After all, they are like little researchers just trying to figure out the world around them and are more often than not, pretty hilarious!). If denied the opportunity to act on her environment, she may begin to doubt her abilities, which could lead to low self-esteem and feelings of shame throughout her entire life (not to worry too much though...there are many ways to heal this, including sessions with a skilled therapist and classes like this one to help you understand your own development and to empower you to grow beyond anything that hinders you, psychologically).
Once children reach the preschool stage (ages 3–6 years), they are capable of initiating activities and asserting control over their world through social interactions and play. According to Erikson, preschool children must resolve the task of initiative versus guilt. By learning to plan and achieve goals while interacting with others, preschool children can master this task. Those who do will develop self-confidence and feel a sense of purpose. Those who are unsuccessful at this stage—with their initiative misfiring or stifled—may develop long-term feelings of guilt whenever they make a decision. Do you know anyone like that? Erikson would look to his theory to help explain it. Can you see how over-controlling parents/caregivers might stifle a child’s initiative?
During the elementary school stage (ages 6–12), children face the task of industry versus inferiority. Children begin to compare themselves to their peers to see how they measure up. They either develop a sense of pride and accomplishment in their schoolwork, creative endeavors, sports, social activities, and family life, or risk feeling inferior and inadequate when they don’t measure up (even if it's only in their imagination that they don't "measure up" to others). What are some things parents/caregivers and educators can do to help children develop a sense of competence and a belief in themselves and their abilities?
In adolescence (ages 12–18), children face the task of identity versus role confusion. According to Erikson, an adolescent’s main task is developing a sense of self. Adolescents struggle with questions such as “Who am I?” and “What do I want to do with my life?” Along the way, most adolescents try on many different selves to see which ones fit. Adolescents who are successful at this stage have a strong sense of identity and are able to remain true to their beliefs and values in the face of problems and other people’s perspectives. What happens to apathetic adolescents, who do not make a conscious search for identity, or those who are pressured to conform to their parents and caregivers ideas for the future? These teens will have a weak sense of self and experience role confusion. They are unsure of their identity and confused about the future.
People in emerging and early adulthood (18ish through 30s) are concerned with intimacy versus isolation. After we have developed a sense of self in adolescence, we are more ready to share our life with others. Erikson said that we must have a strong sense of self before developing healthy intimate relationships with others. Adults who do not develop a positive self-concept in adolescence may experience feelings of loneliness and emotional isolation.
When people reach their 40s, they enter the time known as middle adulthood, which extends to the mid-60s. The social task of middle adulthood is generativity versus stagnation. Generativity involves finding your life’s work and contributing to the development of others, through activities such as volunteering, mentoring others, or perhaps raising children. Those who do not master this task may experience stagnation, having little connection with others and little interest in productivity and self-improvement. people in stagnation report higher levels of depression than those experiencing generativity.
From the mid-60s to the end of life, we are in the period of development known as late adulthood. Erikson’s task at this stage is called ego integrity versus despair. He said that people in late adulthood reflect on their lives and feel either a sense of satisfaction or a sense of failure. They hav resolved regrets and have understood how each life experience had lead to help them grow. However, people who are not successful at this stage may feel as if their life has been wasted. They focus on what “would have,” “should have,” and “could have” been. They face the end of their lives with feelings of bitterness, depression, and despair. Below is a summary of the stages of Erikson’s theory.
Erikson's Psychosocial Stages (All ages are approximated)
Age |
Life Stage |
Psychosocial Stage (Task) |
Characteristics |
0–1 |
Infancy |
Trust vs. Mistrust |
Trust (or mistrust) that basic needs, such as nourishment and affection, will be met consistently. |
1–3 |
Toddler-hood |
Autonomy vs. Shame/Doubt |
Develop a sense of independence in many tasks. |
3–6 |
Early Childhood |
Initiative vs. Guilt |
Take initiative on some activities—may develop guilt when underguided/overguided by caregivers. |
7–11 |
Middle Childhood |
Industry vs. Inferiority |
Develop self-confidence in abilities when competent or sense of inferiority when not. |
12–18 |
Adolescence |
Identity vs. Role Confusion |
Experiment with and develop identity and roles. |
19–30s |
Early/Emerging Adulthood |
Intimacy vs. Isolation |
Establish intimacy and relationships with others. |
40–64 |
Middle Adulthood |
Generativity vs. Stagnation |
Contribute to society and others. |
65– |
Late Adulthood |
Integrity vs. Despair |
Assess and make sense of life and meaning of contributions. |
These eight stages form a foundation for discussions on emotional, social, and psychological development during the lifespan. Erikson’s theory has been criticized for focusing so heavily on stages and assuming that the completion of one stage is a prerequisite for the next crisis of development. His theory also focuses on the social expectations that are found in certain cultures, but not in all. For instance, the idea that adolescence is a time of searching for identity might translate well in the middle-class culture of the United States, but not as well in cultures where the transition into adulthood coincides with puberty through rites of passage and where adult roles offer fewer choices.
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